Thought of the Day...

I was busy reading all about my new adventure...Independent Stylist for Stella & Dot....and while reading about the founder, Jessica Herrin, I was truly inspired. She shared her Personal Motto with the world and I could not agree with her more:

"Be daring, be different, be impractical; be anything that will assert integrity of purpose and imaginative vision against the play-it-safers, the creatures of the commonplace, the slaves of the ordinary." –Cecil Beaton

Although there are the everyday tasks that are unavoidable, it's how you accomplish those task's. Who say's we have to follow the normal steps of life. Take a leap of faith. Do something scary. You never know what the results may be. Failure is a possibility, however, what you learn leading to failure is a huge reward. By taking the risk you are now able to answer the question "What if..." and you never know where those step's of risk will take you.

I challenge anyone who reads this post to follow through with your inside voice "What if I could be..." or "What if I tried..." you never know what the result may be. Spread your wings and persue the passion inside.

Cheers,

Cara

Great Advice...

A close friend of mine is 2 months away from getting married and she shared a piece of advice with me that I find to be some of the best advice in terms of marriage, as well as, life.

"No expectations..."

This doesn't mean you can have a plan or set goals. This just means that life changes, situations come up and by not having any set expectations than you won't be disappointed.
Think back to the times where you were most frustrated with a friend, husband, family member or even yourself....if you had avoided an expectation would things have been different?
Just a thought....hope everyone is enjoying 2010!
Cheers,
Cara

What did you Plant?

I was sent this incredible link of inspiration and positive reinforcement....I invite you all to check it out. It’s a 3 minute clip titled The Strangest Secret Movie.

http://www.thestrangestsecretmovie.com/


Enjoy!
Cara

P.S. What did you plant?

"A New Begining..."

Photo found on Flickr.com

As we say good bye to 2009 and look forward to 2010 {not only a new year, but a new decade), what thoughts run through your mind? Some people are believers that the New Year brings new beginnings. Other's look at the countdown and dropping of the ball as a reason to celebrate. I believe in both. At the same time, I also believe January 1st is no different than July 2nd or any other day of the year.

Why is it that our society puts so much pressure on the idea that the New Year Brings New Beginnings? Every day is a new day. Look to your past as a road map to your future. We all make mistakes; bad decisions or we often times do nothing at all. The beauty about each day is the opportunity for change.



I challenge everyone to set goals whether it is today, was on January 1st or will be on February 9th. I encourage everyone to set at least 3 goals and follow through with them. Below are a few tips to remember when setting and implementing your goals:



1. Set short and long term goals. Short term goals can be checked off frequently or are stepping stones to achieving your long term goal. A long term goal is more of a challenge and will take time and personal investment.

2. Goals must be specific and measurable.

3. Remember to be Realistic so that you remain committed.

4. Write them down.

5. Store them in a place where you will be reminded each day of what you plan to accomplish. My goals are posted at my desk in a place where I view them every day. I have heard of others who have taped their goals to the bathroom mirror or on the back of their bedroom door. It's a form of daily inspiration.

6. Share your goals with someone who will hold you accountable. Often times, we start off spirited and then we allow our ideas to fall by the waste side. Having an accountability partner will remind you and encourage you to follow through.

7. And finally celebrate, each time you accomplish a goal.

*Side note, although goals are intended to be accomplished, they can also change. As human beings our needs, wants, desires, capabilities, can all change based on experiences we have. Sometimes these experiences are controlled and other times they are out of our control. Remember to allow yourself some room for change.



I am going to finish this thought with a quote,

"A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step."

- Lao Tzu 600 BC - 531 BC, thinkexist.com



Good Luck & Happy New Year!



Cara